Growing up my parents did many things well.  One of the finest legacies they passed along to me is my love for travel.  I can remember from very early on, taking trips to Arkansas in the car to visit Mike’s mother.  As we got a little older and our bodies grew even bigger those trips became cross-country trips to California in the mini-van.  Those were the days!  I treasure those memories.

Ever since those days, I have longed to pass along that same legacy to my sons.

Tomorrow Warren and I embark on a cross-country trip to San Diego.  Crazy, I know, but I couldn’t be more excited! I am blessed to work for Randall House and to get to go to some cool events.  This week I am headed to Children’s Pastors Conference – San Diego, CA where I will meet up with my other partner in crime, Randy Walser.

As we head out tomorrow our first destination is Tulsa, OK.  We leave mid-day, so it will be a long one!

In addition to the pure adventure of traveling across country with Warren, there is an even greater adventure going on: He and I will “begin” having so Pre-Adolescent conversations.  He is 7 now, and 7 will soon turn into 9 then 11, then 17 and he’s gone!  It’s hard to believe he’s already 7 as it is!  I am looking forward to these talks together.

My prayer for this trip is that our relationship will be strengthened even further, and that Warren will have yet one more layer of understanding as to what it means to be a young man in the pursuit of the heart of God.

Walking in Grace,

Matt

What does your discipleship model at your church look like?  Do you have a model of spiritual formation from birth to young adults?  Have you considered the power of what can happen when churches and parents partner together?

Brian Haynes is a voice of reason, wisdom, and authority on this topic and I am becoming more and more impressed with him and what I see coming out of Kingsland Baptist Church in Katy, TX.

I was thrilled to see that Children’s Ministry Magazine chose to do a story on Brian, the Legacy Milestones model, and his church.  It’s in the June/July issue if you have not read it.

I also would like to recommend Brian’s blog and his churche’s Legacy Milestones website.

Check out the map below.  We have groups from over 33 states who have registered.  The cool thing is that this image is at least 2 weeks old.  Since then we have had several groups register for the D6 Conference from areas where we do not have may people registered.  Check it out!

In light of yesterday’s post, I highly recommend this book.  Although this resource is not exhaustive and it does not cover everything, it is a helpful tool in processing what it takes to be a spiritual leader in your home.

Check out this video.  Sorry about the music…get’s a little interesting near the end.  Never the less the interaction between the Croc & the Otter family is pretty cool!

Last night the boys, Katie, and I were watching one of my favorite DVD’s, Planet Earth (the Fresh Water episode) and I saw one of the most interesting encounters I have seen in a long time.  A family of otters took on an 11 foot crocodile…and the crocodile backed down!

Have you ever watched otters?  They are not the most threatening creature in the animal kingdom, but when it comes to standing up against a giant predator, they seem to have no fear.  I was really impressed with this…it sort of gave me a little more sense of pride for being high on the “otter scale” on John Trent’s Leading From Your Strengths assessment…but that’s not the point.

Anyway, what really intrigued me (as someone who spends a great deal of time thinking about family, parenting, and what the next generation will look like) was the power of a united family of otters.  As a group, they had power and authority.  As a family, they had confidence to take on the hostile environment around them.

Forgive me for offending (sometimes the truth can be hurtful for all of us…I know it can be for me), but I see far too many Christian families who are just going through the motions, doing little to nothing intentional to raise up spiritual champions for Christ.  If we are not intentional about helping our kids see a clear division between what is going on in our culture and the kingdom that is in the next world, then we stand a great chance of losing them.  How can we expect our families to stay tight and united in Christ when we do little to nothing to disciple our children at home?  If parents are not leading their kids spiritually at home (conversations, talks, teachable moments, faith breakthroughs, spiritual milestones…a whole mixed bag of opportunities to impress Christ on the hearts of our kids), then why should we expect them to be passionate about following Christ as an adult?  What do they see in you? Why would they follow you if it’s not important enough to you to take time to talk about your relationship with God at home?  Why would they grow up to be a Christ follower if it’s not important enough to you to plan time to invest in them spiritually at home?  This is the breeding ground for lukewarm/nominal Christianity. Read the rest of this entry »

As of today, we have groups coming from 29 different states: coast to coast, north to south.  If your group has not yet registered, you can register at D6conference.com by this Friday May 1st using the KWHD6 discount code and save $25 per person on groups of 2 – 9 people.  Individuals can save $30 per person.  Groups of 10+ can save $15 per person.  See you in Dallas!

Katie pointed out to me the verse at the bottom the previous post.  I don’t remember reading that before (Dr. Outlaw, I am sure I did read it in OT Survey…I just don’t remember it).

Anyway, what an amazing passage about passing along what matters most.

Psalm 71:18

¹⁸ Even when I am old and gray,
do not forsake me, O God,
till I declare your power to the next generation,
your might to all who are to come.

I have spent the last three days in conferences.  First the PCPA (Protestant Christian Publishers Association) then yesterday and today at the Connecting Church and Home Conference at Brentwood Baptist Church in Brentwood, TN.

I should not be allowed to attend the Connecting Church and Home Conference because I am like a kid in a candy store.  This is not work for me, this is play.  Everyone who is attending this event is essentially trying to figure out how to apply D6 in their local church context (which many times requires changing the DNA of your church ministry strategy & heart the beat of your church)…obviously a place for us to hang out, spend time with ministers, learn about what God is doing in different churches, and make new friends/relationships.  We are having a blast, learning from others, and doing some serious networking (yesterday we received an invitation to go up and visit John Piper’s team in MN).  Check out some of the pics form the PreCon.

This is Steve Wright, author of ReTHiNK speaking to a Lab group (open floor dialogue).  It was a great time for people to share about what God is doing in the faith at home movement and how they are shifting their ministries form the “silo” mentality to an integrated strategy of equipping parents to the the primary spiritual leaders in the home…essentially, churches partnering with parents by equipping and resourcing them.

This is a shot of the smaller group that attended the PreCon.  The Main Conference began Friday night and had a crowd about twice this size (about 150 in all). Great event.

I look forward to what God is going to do at this event today.

I have enjoyed the past two days at home (on vacation) as a part of Warren’s Spring Break.  It’s been quite nice being around the house a for a few days.  Yesterday we spent the afternoon at the Nashville Zoo.  It was the perfect day for being outside, and we had a ball.

Today we have an afternoon meeting with the Wesleyan Publishing House.  Tomorrow I will be at the PCPA Conference (Protestant Christian Publishers Conference) here in Nashville.  It’s essentially a meeting with other Denominational houses to discuss common themes in our ministry & operation as well as to learn from one another.

Friday and Saturday I will be attending the Connecting Church and Home Conference in Brentwood, TN.  In many respects, this event is a lot like D6, just much smaller.  They even have two speakers who will also be sharing at the D6 Conference.  I look forward to this event and to making many new relationships/contacts.  I hope that in some way I can be enriched and that D6 can also make a contribution to the ongoing conversation at this event.

I first met Angela this past December.  I was thoroughly impressed with the depth of her walk with Christ in our interview.  This is a woman who has experienced real pain and the joy that comes through obedience in times of trial.  I sense her humility and her deep dedication to God, her family and to ministering to women and families.  I look forward to her sharing at the D6 Conference.